Members
of the Religious Society of Friends (or Quakers) have a strong tradition of
acting "out of religious concern" in the wider world. Friends have been known
for developing practical programs to meet people's needs in this country and
abroad. These programs, including schools, colleges, and an array of efforts
that assist victims of war, poverty, and oppression, go beyond ministering
to physical needs. They express a deep concern for the dignity and spiritual
worth of each person. They seek to build caring communities.
This tradition led Quakers in New Jersey, Pennsylvania, and Maryland to develop more than 20 programs for the aging, beginning early in the 19th Century. The programs meet the needs of people in a variety of circumstances and with a wide range of means, interests, and life styles.
The early vision for these programs, and their guiding principles today, stem from fundamental Quaker beliefs and practices. Friends believe that there is an "inner light" or "that of God" in all persons, regardless of a person's religion, race, gender, or condition. They are convinced that, on the simple basis of their humanity, all people are inherently equal and each is worthy of respect. Quakers are committed to integrity in dealing with others and to simplicity in worship and in living. They are known for their respect for the religious and ethical traditions of others.
Friends' beliefs not only led to the founding of Quaker programs for the aging. They continue to shape the way in which the services are provided.
Some Hallmarks of Quaker Services for the Aging
- Believing that all people have capacities and strengths that can be supported and nurtured. Programs focus on a person's wellness and abilities rather than on needs, disabilities, or illness.
- Respecting the dignity of each individual. Programs seek to understand and listen to the older person and to respond with care and flexibility. This respect is accorded all, regardless of infirmity or frailty.
- Involving participants in decisions about their own lives and surroundings, including when they are infirm, as a way of recognizing independence and supporting the highest possible quality of life.
- Supporting mutual respect and interaction among those in our programs, our residents and their families, our staff, and the wider community.
- Creating social environments that draw on the skills and unique experiences that participants bring to the community's life.
- Providing nursing care for frail and confused patients that is not dependent on the use of physical restraints.
- Believing that the later years of life are full of potential for love, growth, friendship, and contributions to others.
- Involving employees in broad areas of decision-making and treating them with respect.
- Operating under the leadership of boards of directors that carry out their business on the basis of Quaker decision-making processes (seeking unity in decision-making) and Quaker values.
- Managing finances prudently, as not-for-profit organizations dedicated to the service of residents, patients, and participants.
The members of Friends Services for the Aging believe that their communities and services are enriched by diversity within their organizations. Their Quaker values lead to a policy of inclusion, of seeking out diversity, and of nondiscrimination.
Our commitment to diversity flows from our common Quaker identity and values. Friends believe that each human life is sacred—that there is "that of God" in every person. This conviction has led to more than three centuries of Quaker action to promote equality, respect for differences, and the dignity of all people.
FSA member organizations are committed to making their services to the aging a part of this heritage.